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I hate myself so I'll change myself into a better person

That's not good???

 

You never added the "better person" part, ha.

 

I'm assuming you're young, so you have plenty of time to evolve into a better person. We all aren't perfect anyway, but it's never severe to the point of "hate."

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You never added the "better person" part, ha.

 

I'm assuming you're young, so you have plenty of time to evolve into a better person. We all aren't perfect anyway, but it's never severe to the point of "hate."

Actually you can severely hate yourself. Or I can say your "old" self

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Actually you can severely hate yourself. Or I can say your "old" self

 

I know that, but we often just blame ourselves, which turns into self-hatred, and causes to be emotionally drained. Do we naturally hate ourselves, or does rejection from others, guilt, thinking bad thoughts, etc cause us to think this way? a valid question by the way. I'm just speaking from personal experience. Building confidence, finding a support system, etc allows people to escape the trap of hate they place themselves in.

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I know that, but we often just blame ourselves, which turns into self-hatred, and causes to be emotionally drained. Do we naturally hate ourselves, or does rejection from others, guilt, thinking bad thoughts, etc cause us to think this way? a valid question by the way. I'm just speaking from personal experience. Building confidence, finding a support system, etc allows people to escape the trap of hate they place themselves in.

That's my case, guilt.

And changing into another person is still a solution.

So you still think that hating in one's self is bad?

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That's my case, guilt.

And changing into another person is still a solution.

So you still think that hating in one's self is bad?

 

Not in the sense where I'll judge the person.

 

I don't encourage others to feel that way because I've been down that similar road and it's not healthy. I'm still a work in progress, but I understand when others tell me about their issues and how they sink into this hole of despair. Basically, I just like seeing people overcome their self hate and realize their importance.

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Not in the sense where I'll judge the person.

 

I don't encourage others to feel that way because I've been down that similar road and it's not healthy. I'm still a work in progress, but I understand when others tell me about their issues and how they sink into this hole of despair. Basically, I just like seeing people overcome their self hate and realize their importance.

You are right. I also believe that people want to overcome that self hate as well.

But it takes time.

Right now I don't want to :) But I will definitely :D

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You are right. I also believe that people want to overcome that self hate as well.

But it takes time.

Right now I don't want to :) But I will definitely :D

 

Glad to hear that :)

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