@CC: Just to note, I'm speaking as a Martial Artist here. Ran is a competition fighter, and a well trained black belt. They are expected to have more control than the normal person (ergo, due to her training, she is NOT a "normal person,"). It is fine to be protective, but attacking someone that you aren't even sure of is not the martial art way, especially not when your friend just tells you to attack. In that situation, Ran would have been arrested for assault, no matter what the circumstance (unless the perpetrator was physically attacking Sonoko) due to her training. Martial artists, especially tournament champions, are held at a higher standard. She could have severely hurt the the perpetrator (leading to an excessive force charge, along with assault). It was not Ran's place to attack, and she would have likely been dealt with more severely because of her training. Not only that, but the guy felt her up, not attacked her. You confront, not attack people like that. Ran handled the situation poorly. She was lucky that she attacked Sera, a trained JKD practitioner whom was able to defend herself.
The rest of what you said. There are two different issues... The first is controlling emotions. My argument is that Ran does not control her emotions. Perhaps our definitions of controlling emotions is different, but I was taught that controlling your emotions doesn't mean that you don't have them, but rather is the ability to direct that energy to whatever end the person whom is feeling that emotion wishes. Basically you use the emotion to either deal with what is making you sad/angry/[insert other emotions here]. I don't pretend to be strong, because I'm really not. Again, I had to go to counseling for one of those aforementioned deaths. I chose however to not let that stop me and I logically worked through everything so that I could direct it in a positive way. In that sense, yes, I am an anecdotal case. I am well aware of that, I was merely using it as an example. And the other example was merely countering her example. And please don't tell me that everyone I know, all 10 people at the ME's office, is a unique case. Perhaps they had similar training or the same mentality, but still, that example's only purpose was to provide an anecdotal counterargument to her anecdotal argument, nothing more. Please don't take it any other way.
The second part was that that crying need not impede your ability to act. It does with Ran, which doesn't need to be the case. Most of the other cast including the DBoys seem to be able to handle it just fine. I'd prefer it if Ran developed somewhat so that she would be able to deal with it better. She doesn't have to get used to it, its not in her character to do that. But at least have the frame of mind to be able to pick up the phone without being told. She has seen countless deaths, it is not too much to ask that she develop at least enough so that she can call the cops while crying without being told by Conan or Kogorou.
@Madeline: I'm sorry, but... I was defending my position. You didn't have to take it personally as you did. Usually when debates happen each side defends their position. It isn't about being right or wrong. If you want me to understand your position, then do it in a manner that explains it. You don't need to talk down to me, and I consider that response offensive for all the wrong reasons. I never actually suggested any of that. And I'm really sorry it read like that, but you brought in anecdotal evidence, and so I did the same. Regardless, this is a debate, so naturally I'd write things that support my position and try to discredit yours. It is how debates work.