Typically I'd say making connections is better than building walls, but just ignore them. I know I'm completely going off what my counselors have been telling me to do, but really, don't even bother with these people. They sound terrible. Hit list? xDMeh... If you do something, it's not going to be 'always'.
@Hikari: One of the best things about this club is that it's over the Internet, so everyone is unbiased. Talk to someone (or to everyone) if you want.