Ah, okay. Andro/agender/asexual people are harder for me to understand than trans/homosexuals, simply because they're different from the norm. Homosexuals (and all other -sexuals) love just as straight people do, and I guess I can put myself in the shoes of a transgender with gender dysphoria. Asexual, androgynous, and agender would be a lack of these set identities that I take for granted. I've honestly never thought about gender roles though. It's really interesting, hearing you speak of these things.Gah that makes me so happy! It's a nice thing to hear after just learning about Alabama, haha. I do understand if you get shocked from seeing a trans for the first time, and even more shocked when you're not aware of what they're doing as they walk into the changing room, but the rest of the story screams transphobia. PlanetFitness' policy is amazing. Seeing their commercials (that I now regret always making fun of) about how they won't judge, I've never thought that they'd include this.