Dear Anonymous,
Even if you are wrong, even if you can do the things I never thought you'd do, I'm not the one to sing my own praises, what right and wrong I did or you did, but it's not such a good thing to just tell your son to "Go to hell." if he can't meet your expectations, even if I stay up till 2 in the morning to earn your gratitude. I know better than to just abandon you, to run to any relative because they know it won't take me long to get some scholarship thingy or enter a boarding school, because I'm only comparitively weak compared to them.
-Anonymous