Awww I love you guys! (now i understand why girls say i love you to anyone)*Hugs*
You might know this but just to be sure...
Girls are psychologically more mature than men (around 10 years or so, I herd).
So girls get easily broken down in self consciousness because even the brain is being competitive against other girls without even thinking of it.(based on what I know. If I'm wrong then I better review that.)
Dunno if I'm right to say this but,
You will start to see (around after puberty or beginning of ovulation) yourself comparing with others, and thinking "I NEED to look better than them." When you look at yourself, "Why do I look so ugly? fat? unattractive?" (no offense.)
Girls are physically structured way BEYOND more complicated than men, so is the mentallity of girls. We, men, don't really care what we wear, or when should we wash(I rarely do;; lol), because men are not competitive against each other until they find a love. (if you have seen discovery channels or some sort, males often fight over females). That's the only time men are usually competitive.
Hating yourself isn't going to help. I don't know why, but it's pretty common for girls to think them selves as an enemy and hate themselves.
Usually it can be a sign of depression, but you aren't really in it, you're just being a normal girl.
I know and and I understand how it feels, I've been in depression for couple of month before joining DCW.
So start thinking positive(how I recovered from depression, it is better than taking weird medications).
If you keep hating yourself you will feel really lonely, even though you are with your family, and start to be silent as ever. (my first sign of depression.)
Whoa, am I off topic? I'm not sure what I'm doing...