Relationships

[Shizuki]

Hi, I'm Shizuka, and I'm practically a newbie on DCW! Um...how do I start? Well, this topic is about relationships...I met this guy, and I like him. So, today, he just walked up to me, and did those guy eye things, like when a guy says hi to you with their eyes or something. We talk occasionally, well, actually, he always starts the conversation first. I wonder...how can I get out of my shell? It's hard because I am not a "sociable" person...and I like him...thanks!

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[detective1]

Hmmm, really?.... not bad

Have great time

[hopes]

Wow, that's sweet. <3

This is an interesting topic... Actually, there's something on here called "The Lonely Heart's Club". It has the same basics as this I guess...

*sigh* I'm horrible with relationships and love... When I'll ever find that someone? Probab;y never.

[Fluffy Ears]

I am not a "sociable" person too and because of that. She's taken.

[Emiko Seiei]

Well there's no real definite explanation on how to get out of one's "shell".

You just gotta want to.

The first step in change is to want to change.

When I have a conversation, I just make sure to listen to every detail because later in the future when you bring it up he'll be surprised

guys want to be listened to just as much as girls.

...well I hoped that helped

i'm not very good at giving advice ^ ^;;...so don't get mad if this sounds weird

[tengaku squared]

I lose track and my sanity if I have too many friends and other close relationships.

[Kim-Chan]

Well I'm unsure how you'd get tout of your 'shell', it's really up to you to become more confident with talking to people.. I don't know what advice I'd give you for overcoming shyness. HOWEVER, I have to say this, it's very important, when you do get more social, make sure the way you act with that guy is different from other guys. Why? Because this is what nice people tend to do wrong, you're nice to the person you like, but it won't mean much to them if they see you nice to everyone, they'd assume that their just another person to you. So, basically, you gotta treat them differently, like make them feel a little more special. That's just what I think..

Anyway, as for my love life, it's complicated. I was stuck in a love triangle last year...

This year just started so I dunno, but the guy I like and I have made progress ^^

We've gone from being strangers that kind just stare at each other to good friends. He's kinda weird &silly but on the inside he's sensitive and nice Awkward thing is that we both know that we both like each other but it's not really going anywhere. Probably because we both agree we are still rather young for dating and stuff. Or it's just awkward..

[tengaku squared]

So, basically, you gotta treat them differently, like make them feel a little more special. That's just what I think..

I find this untrue. But that's just what I think.

[Kim-Chan]

I find this untrue. But that's just what I think.

How so? And to be honest I never thought about it until I read about it in this one book

[Sayomi]

I'm not exactly a more sociable person either. I'm one of those socially awkward penguins xDDD And I'm not that great at explaining things either. But what I think is that you should just be yourself and talk to him normally. If he's the one initiating the conversations... maybe it's a good sign Talk to him about stuff you're interested in, try to find some things you have in common Or you could even recommend DC to him if he's the "anime type." Actually, just talk about anything that could start verrrrrry long discussions :3

[Detective Rohit]

I'm not exactly a more sociable person either. I'm one of those socially awkward penguins xDDD And I'm not that great at explaining things either.

Same here..>.>

[Moonlight Magician]

You mean he winked(^_~)?

Welcome here and enjoy!

[Fluffy Ears]

I confessed to the girl I like.

[Kim-Chan]

I confessed to the girl I like.

And how did that go...?

Unless you don't want to talk about it, that's understandable..

[Fluffy Ears]

And how did that go...?

Unless you don't want to talk about it, that's understandable..

Last night our conversation was very awkward. ._.

Then she said that she'll help me with me crush and then then then I was forced to confess. ._.

[Kim-Chan]

Last night our conversation was very awkward. ._.

Then she said that she'll help me with me crush and then then then I was forced to confess. ._.

Ohh. I've had awkward converstaions like that before

Not so fun DX

[Fluffy Ears]

Ohh. I've had awkward converstaions like that before

Not so fun DX

Yeah, It's not really funny. ._.

[Sayomi]

Last night our conversation was very awkward. ._.

Then she said that she'll help me with me crush and then then then I was forced to confess. ._.

Ohh I know someone who was kinda in the same situation She liked him and she was talking to him about it and then he told her he knew who it was.... ehe...

[Fluffy Ears]

Ohh I know someone who was kinda in the same situation She liked him and she was talking to him about it and then he told her he knew who it was.... ehe...

:|

I'm an idiot! -__-

[Lia.]

I currently don't like-like anyone.

[vawli]

Same here, I am not a "sociable" person and I like a guy too. I just wanted to say hi so many times but I chickened out because I thought it would be awkward but at the same time I keep regretting it when I miss the chance to say something. The first time I talked to him he did not know who I was(so awkward.) The second time I talked to him he got my name wrong so I felt so bad. Now I did not say anything.

[Kaitou Kid Legendary Thief]

I have yet to find someone I like... And at the same time feel at ease with him... (except my ex which I don't want to be reminded of...) relationships are complicated...

Anyways...shuu-chan... Gambatte!!!

[Samantha]

I did like this one boy back at my old school. I'd known him for.....a long time. But he likes this other girl and she likes him back, so I figured, what the heck. I'm not gonna make things complicated. I haven't seen him for a while, so I guess that's that.